I am sorry that you feel my advice to you doesn't pertain to your situation to the point that you have ignored both of my posts to you.
I don't take it personally, but having been in your shoes and now being reconcilled in my Marriage after MLC I tend to be a lot more optimistic then most about saving a Marriage and not rushing off to file for a Divorce.
Unfortunately taking advice from those who are negative and bitter you will end up like them unless you get your head on straight and figure out exactly what it is that you want.
You don't want a Divorce, this is obvious.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
