It is so good to see you. I am still holding my own, but finding out new stuff all the time. I just posted to Lost and have pasted the relevant stuff about me below:
I made so many excuses for my H, but when it hits you smack dab in the face, you have to begin to understand that they are not being fair to you.
Yes, they have a right to move and change, but it does not make for a happy camper for those of us on the other side -- the LBS. Never forget that we are all here for a reason.
If God does not reveal it immediately, it is because he knows we cannot handle it. He only gives us as much as we can handle. I truly believe this!
I went to see my priest today. I revealed information I have just recently received. And my priest confirmed to me that it was God's hand that made this information available to me, at this time. If I had it a year ago, I would not have been able to handle it. Trust me when I tell you these things.
With regard to how to interpret my H's words to me, or about me, people told me the following many times. And I never understood it until recently: "You are his wife and you know him better than anyone else. You are in the best position to interpret what he means." I understand this now. I am now walking the DB line with my eyes WIDE open. I am going to pray for direction. I'm convinced that God is waiting for my questions.
Now hear this: Trust yourself. Quiet your thoughts as best you can. And, listen to the still small voice in your ear, to see if you can find your own answer to your questions. Often that voice is God talking to you. Pay attention and pray!
