Jeff. This is way off base. My S would like to see me angry and screaming at his father because he is angry at him. I choose not to live with anger or bitterness.

I can't change S any more than I can change my H. MY focus is on me - where it needs to be.

I don't back down from him and I don't back down from my H. I'm building my life and H can get on the train or not. My little engine can. I don't just thunk it.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.