WAS seeing reality?

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Thank robx, it is funny to me that this behavior from her started when I took my ring off. But she still writes in her journal that getting flowers from me "sapped all of her energy". I tell you what I have had enough of this crap from her. I made another comment tonight about her tattoo and I said I might get one of our girls names. She then asks "where" and I said on my bicep. She said I should put one name on each bicep but I said I had to save room because I might have more kids someday.:) I have been chatting online with some girls that I knew when I was 20 and it is a nice change. I know I need to detach and I think I have arrived.


I waited so long to start dating mostly because I wanted to be the better person. I also wanted to spend time with my kids so I end up staying over at our house until their bedtime.(we have not lived together since april) Now I am making a point of leaving before they have dinner so that my wife can feel "single" and alone. I have done the clothes,haircut,colonge but she did not care much. She notices but she cares more about the OM. And that is fine, he will never leave his wife. I have done everything short of saying, "I can't watch the kids on xxxday because I am going out with so and so."

And about the gum thing, she just wants to find something to make me look bad as a parent. I wanted to say "kiss my a**" but that would have made me look bad too.:)

Thanks for the input and I will take your advice.