The thing is that you need to act as if this was someone you were dating again. You've got a looooong way to go to establish the trust. Get her to trust you first. Worry about the R later.If she starts talking about the R, just tell her that you want to just spend the time enjoying the evening together and the R talk can wait.
Definitely DO NOT date other people. Especially since you were the one who cheated on her.
Take it all one day at a time.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.