Did something new happen? If you are just stewing about the argument you just had and won, let it go. You won. You can still pull a divorce out of this situation if you try. Or you can let time move along until you can enforce rules on the conversation and peaceably negotiate the outcome, i.e., at Retrouvaille.
Just stewing about the R in general.
As I said, it's a good thing she is/was not home...
Just needed to be angry for a while.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.