I have been very busy... and sorry to bend everyone's ear but I need to vent. Things have been up and down, mostly up but his anger and twisted thinking can really get in the way. Both kids moved out this week - and I am sad - but we finally get to be alone and uninterrupted and he starts a fight with me. I don't get it. It is also a vacation time for us and we aren't spending it together? I don't get it again. Does anyone else know something that I don't? He has six and half months sobriety. We have everything set up to move next month, and now he is thinking otherwise... I just want to scream! One would think that this man doesn't want to be with me. Does anyone agree with that or not? This behavior of his is old pattern - but still... I am feeling unwanted and abandoned. (Not to mention sad at the moves of my kids into the real world) And yes, he still attends meetings and we are in MC.