I don't believe that they think about us until they either get caught or divorce papers are filed. I know my H thought that what he was doing was 'wrong' but did not think about my feelings until he actually got caught doing it. I still wonder if he even realizes the pain that he caused another human being because of his actions.

Hope you get to caourt soon. I hope that it doesn't end up being a long drawn out proccess for you.


Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09