BTW, thanks for asking about my sitch. We went on a family vacation a couple of weeks ago which went great. She opened up more and overall had a good time. Right now she's heading downhill in the emotional roller coaster dept.
She's again seeming down and not taking much pleasure in things with the kids. I really do wish she'd see a doc about it. I've been debating whether or not to talk to her about it.
Last week she asked for my SSN to put me down as a beneficiary for her 401k. Weird for someone who wants me out as a spouse.
I've jumped off the emotional rollercoaster and am just watching her go up and down the curves on her own.
I don't know if you saw this article before, but it kind of gives an idea of what I'm doing in my sitch with her...