Great to hear that.

BTW, thanks for asking about my sitch. We went on a family vacation a couple of weeks ago which went great. She opened up more and overall had a good time. Right now she's heading downhill in the emotional roller coaster dept.

She's again seeming down and not taking much pleasure in things with the kids. I really do wish she'd see a doc about it. I've been debating whether or not to talk to her about it.

Last week she asked for my SSN to put me down as a beneficiary for her 401k. Weird for someone who wants me out as a spouse.

I've jumped off the emotional rollercoaster and am just watching her go up and down the curves on her own.

I don't know if you saw this article before, but it kind of gives an idea of what I'm doing in my sitch with her...

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/02/fashion/02love.html?_r=1&pagewanted=all

I'm even debating if I should forward this article over to my W to show that she's not alone.

How are things today with you?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER