Nope you're not because I can answer the questions happily!
Yes, we are addressing those issues that led us here today. For the last two months, there's been a lot of talk and very good talk about what got him here and what got me here. Both of us have actually heard each other too. So slow progress but true effort on his part...can't take that from him at all.
But he still has his knuckle head moments.
He did the Skpe (sp?) thing with us multiple times. He has to be at work at 4:00 or 4:30 am. He is asleep by no later than 9:30 or 10:00, we skped with him last at 9:40 or so. So I guess who could have gone out after that. Doubt it.
If you read back my birthday was a blast because of him. He's making more effort toward me in terms of every day communication, texts, calls, etc and we hang out much much more and he's inviting me as his "date" to events again around his golf buddies and most recently co-workers. And he calls me his wife again in conversation. There's more but I got to bolt. I'll be back!