Golfgirl1, H was very angry, until he made is final move out out totally, instead of coming home for a couple hours each night. She bought a new condo, he moved in, and after that, was less angry.I'm no expert, but, I'd say it is the indecision on top of the need to have exactly what they want(entitlement), and you being in the way, that made them angery. Once they've decided on a course of action, that angry may dissapate.
