Yes, inform the company if they work together with your wife as subordinate.
Your reaction was normal, and really what should have happened, rather than falling back later on the "let's not do anything hasty here". You must be a sucker for punishment the way you have R talks almost every day. Is that the new DB, cuz the one I'm aware of says NOT to have R talks. Your wife basically said she wants to explore the relationship with OM....if next time she'll more blatantly say, "I'd like to have sex with him", are you going to keep doing the "nice guys finish first" thing?
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
