Young couple in need of help

[sumguy27]

volleydog I did what you advise:

I replied: I'm going to research optins and I want to make sure what we are doing is best for the kids.

Her reply:

Yeah well didn't you see how (S) reacted when we were arguing like crazy? You want him to see us do that everyday?

I don't want to even reply. I'm going to write something back that is going to hurt me more. So I will wait for advice. She is trying to push my buttons. I can see it now. She is trying to justify this even more with those lines.