Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Well, time to go "home". Sandi I'd still love your take on this.......Or anyone else is just as fine too.

So Sandi,

I read in another thread the "jealousy indicates attachment, and the more angerly or negatively that jealousy is displayed the more attached they still are".

So is this XW's way of saying she's still trying to cling on to something (me) despite all she's said and done, and even still while with OM?

She made it a point to articulate during the better part of the converation how much she was looking forward to getting her drivers liscence back as she "feels like a prisoner". Couple that with the statement that OM is her "chauffer". she also tried to downplay their relation, despite the engagement now never being put off in her terms.

And if so, being from your stance, what would be the wrong response from your LBS? I'm currently not giving her a response and darkened communication again. Wrong move? I don't think so, I think if it festers in her head for a while and she has no idea what I'm up to, she'll come back around on her own and try even harder to work at being friends?

It also goes to show, I've changed my ways and not fought back, despite her insisting I did. I opted to terminate the conversation on several occasions.

thanks for any input
-dylan