Get him to say -- straight up yay or nay -- on Saturday Night -- make him say it, confirm it, so you both can know explicitly that he is being an azz or not.

If he refuses to give you a straight answer then kindly tell him he can wait until the normal scheduled time to pick them up -- and no earlier.

Sheesh! If this guy can't understand decent common courtesy and fair play ...


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.