Unfortunately you are human like everyone else. In fact, you wouldn't have been here in the first place if your M was all that great to begin with.
Wrong again Stuck. I have a great marriage. It is also one of the reasons that I DO know what I am talking about. You are making some statements that I would suggest you study up on instead of throwing things out and hope something sticks.
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All I'm saying is that it's ultimately his decision to make. He's shown a responsible path, so after taking everyone's opinions in, he should do what HE feels is right.
No that is NOT all your saying. If it was, then that would have been all you said. You also said there is no right and wrong. (not the first time you have repeated that nonsense)
Af far as it is his decision to make.. DUH.. It that supposed to be advice? No kidding? It is his decision to make?.. I would never have guessed. Get real.
As far as him doing what he "feels" is right. I guess you still need to learn. You should be learning instead of advising. It is dangerous to do what you "feel." Feelings can mislead people. (WS's go by what they "feel" too)
That isn't good advice. He needs to STOP going by his feelings and start to look at the facts and reality. His feelings have taken him nowhere except "stuck"...
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As for Kevin's sitch, if you read his stuff from the beginning, you'll see he was extremely and still is co-dependent on his W. Funny how I don't see you offering him advice.
Wrong yet again Stuck. I HAVE followed Kevin from the very beginning. You sure haven't been telling him to do what he feels is best. Quite the opposite...
Of course I don't give Kevin advice. Why would I waste my time like you and the others are doing. You others haven't figured it out yet. I have. Kevin needs to hear one thing. IT IS OVER, Kevin. She isn't coming back. It is you that is wasting time trying to help him as I watch and see none of it working.. Waste of my time and yours. How long does he have to NOT listen to you before you realize it? Silly of YOU.
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You pick and choose the situations that you believe fit into your "strategy". Go ahead and pick the ones where there has been mental, physical and emotional abuse and see if your one-size-fits-all method works.
Do you talk like this to your wife when you get mad Stuck? Be careful with what you accuse me of, because I don't take to kindly to it. I do notice that "your strategy" hasn't brought you reconcilation. No surprise to me. Of course since there is no right and wrong, we know it isn't anything you did.
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Start replying with respect to others and you'll receive respect in return.
Interesting. I don't recall that we were talking about respect here. I thought your were "only trying to say"....
You like to argue. I would bet your wife despised that part of you. If she said black you immediately default to white or try to preach to her "there really is no black or white"... etc. etc...
You don't like it because I say my mind. That is because you are wishy washy.
