I am 50/50 about dating during DBing....but I think in this case, he's walked down a particular path already and can't turn around and start dating. It will make him look too much like a liar which is never a good thing....what do you think?
I've thought about this a little too. I've declared my intentions and told her I would wait as long as I could for her but that every day I continue to heal and see her with another man I will be growing away from her. I probably should have kept that to myself and just took care of myself, demonstrated happiness, stability and forward movement and waited a bit. That's kind of what I'm trying to do now. Eventually if I don't see any movement I'll date again. If I did that now it would just reinforce her doubts in me.
Thoughts?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09