Young couple in need of help

[sumguy27]

Yes you are right as i will post what has been said to each other after the frist initial email. She can't hear me like what you are saying.

My reply:

If you were going to reconsider us you could have told me. You also know how I am. You could have said I might reconsider us before anything just stop and think before you talk or act. Like I was telling you last night. I'm not tryin to blame you ok I just need your guidance. We are assuming things too much with each other and should have just gotten to the point instead of beating around the bush.

I don't know how you are when it come with them. You use to show your emtions to me all the time. I know you are the best mother to them and you guys are everything to me. I won't ever give up till I know I have done everything I can to save my family.

I dont want to talk about the bad parts of the past anymore either. It brings pain to both of us. It brings arguments from both of us pointing fingers at each other.

I do want you to remember the good and great times! I do want you to see me as your true best friend. Where we can just talk and talk about anything. I have stopped all contact with all those girls for a long time now. I know you won't believe me but I have changed.

Actions do speak louder then words. You will see. I will never give up. Your still my wife and the mother of my childern. Like I said before my biggest fear is what you went through growing up. Or what if your OM comes in the bedroom and touches my little girl! What if we find someonese and the they never love our kids? Only you and I love them and I know deep down your hurt and angry. I know that love is still there but now there is this huge wall and mountain I have to overcome.

Everytime I do take 1 step forward with you I have taken 3 steps back. I'm sorry for being immature. We both have. I love you so much my bones hurt.

Love your husband,

XXXXX

Her response:

Yeah but you know what? What's done is done. I'm done with you and our relationship. It doesn't matter how hard you try to make things work. I'm not willing to do so. I'm not backing down my words. I had enough and thats it. Like I've always said ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Do you actually think I'm not gonna protect my kids? Well think again okay. You act as if none of this happened and that in a month or 2 i'm gonna come back to you and be a happy family all over again. HA yeah right. Like I said you can keep on dreaming and all but you know what I'm still not gonna have a change of mind or heart. Stop calling me your wife and telling people I'm still your wife when we are actually seperated. How do you expect me to be your best friend when all you do is harass me and people around me. Not that threaten people because you think I'm still your wife. Clearly like what my dad said we're not together anymore. So there I don't even know what to say to you anymore cuz its like you block all that [censored] that i say cuz you think that we can become one again. Which we really can't because I'm not gonna fall for you all the BS that I've been in for 8 years. So enough of all that you never answered me about the car and the phone and also the kids. So whats the deal?

I don't want to reply to her anymore. This is making my work day tougher.