sounds like some of the people on here are needlessly trying to get under your skin under the guise of "opening your eyes"
WHAT?
trying to open Orich's eyes to the reality that his wife's actions are neither innocent nor unique.
I had a drinking buddy who story was exactly like Orich's. Guy sat at the bar spilling the same story I am reading here. Sexless marriage, inappropriate relationships with guys from work, texting endlessly to other men, hanging out with her younger neices and cousins. We kept telling him, your wife is fooling around on you. He wouldn't believe it. Kept telling us, "She just lost her attraction for me. What do I do to get that back?"
Wouldnt you know one day he comes home from work early and his wife is in the sack with some 20 year old guy.
I know them both to this day. Wife's excuse, "He just doesnt do it for me."
There. trying to get under his skin? jeesh. you wish.