Just got off the phone with H. He texted me twice, I didn't answer right away. First text at 12:10 "Are you excited?" (I have a my first tennis tournament tonight) 10 mins later "Where are you playing?" I text him for both 10 mins later "Yes, I'm very excited and playing at a city court." He texted back "I will pick up S...thinking about taking him golfing (if the weather holds out)" I said "Thanks".
Later he tried to call me, I didn't hear the phone. I texted back...."I have a tournament this weekend you have one next weekend...shouldn't we switch weekends for S, since I have him this weekend you have him next?"
He texted back "I tried to call you...I have to work Saturday, remember?"
He then calls me and I said, "That's right I forgot."
But we were talking and he said he was going to take S golfing this evening with his league and I could pick him up from the course and he was going to go out with another co-worker who's last day is tomorrow, another guy, not ex OW. I said "but you have S tonight."
He said "ok I don't have to go but I was going to get a drink with him tonight to say bye and go home early because I do have to work tomorrow and not bother with tomorrow night at all which I thought you would prefer." And he adds, You Know Who is not going out tonight.
So now he's going to grab a drink with guy co-worker tonight, not go out at all tomorrow and is staying with us tonight and tomorrow and told me he's not ever going out with her again....it would be no fun.
Since he was trying to accomodate me and my feelings, I told him "Why don't you drop S off at friend's tonight instead of taking him golfing? That golf crew tonight would not appreciate his presence and S's three favorite ladies are doing dinner at Friend's.....Friend, Friend's Daughter(her daughter is in town--S LOVES her) and Another Friend (mutual good frined of me and H)?" He said "Oh I didn't know that why didn't you tell me?" So he's dropping S off there, going to golf, then to guy co-worker's little deal tonight, then coming home. He said "See, we need to communicate more like this."
Are you kidding? We have no problems communicating when b!tch is out of our lives. As a matter of fact, it's easier to not only communicate, but because I actually have his attention and we laugh and play more too.
I swear, I am going to get through this.
have I told you I can recite the alphabet....backward?
