sounds like some of the people on here are needlessly trying to get under your skin under the guise of "opening your eyes", I think as Sara does that you are confident and for the most part quite clear headed on what is going on in your sitch. That's why it's your sitch. Just my thoughts.
lg,
You are an enabler. His wife IS in an affair and has been for some time. It is people like you that keep people like Orich from making the right type of progress. If you want to enable by telling him "he knows what is going on in his sitch", then you are NOT helping, but hurting.
Your word "needlessly" should actually be applied to you and others enabling Orich to keep on doing things that are NOT working. Going on a year now. That should be more than enough time to figure what isn't working.
She IS in an affair. Bank on it. I have read EVERY post that Orich has posted on his threads. Followed this endless saga that is no better today than from day one..
