O, thanks for the words,sounds like some of the people on here are needlessly trying to get under your skin under the guise of "opening your eyes", I think as Sara does that you are confident and for the most part quite clear headed on what is going on in your sitch. That's why it's your sitch. Just my thoughts.
Me 42, Her 34 M 3yrs, T 8yrs D 5 S 3 S 2 ILYBINILWY 02/09 Sleeping in same bed/with intimacy "I,m done" her words: 05/28/09 She's trying again 06/25/09 Second "I'm done" 07/11/09 She's trying again.