So last night I didn't call H back...I just left the situation alone. His mother called me and she told me how she spoke to my H last night and he wasn't as irate as he was earlier in the day. She reminded him of all the hurt and pain he has caused.
Then as I lay down to go to bed, I prayed. I didn't say my usual prayer asking God to intervene and break up H's R with OW. I simply asked that H really realize the hurt and pain he is causing. I asked that when H woke up this morning, his head be filled with guilt and remorse.
So just a few minutes ago, H called me. He called me and said he just wanted to apologize for the way he acted yesterday towards me. That he knows this is very hard for me and it is hard for him as well. He said he just wants things to go smoothly and for us to be able to remain friends. I told him I appreciated his call. He then told me to have a good day and I told him to have a good day as well, and that was it. Short and cordial.
