Details? You are still playing chicken and hoping he'll get an epiphany as reality closes in. He may, BBJ, but it's the rope you need to drop.
I admire so much about you. Your organization skills are amazing! But sugar, you've "detailed" him to death. All that's left is the one thing Dan left himself to deal with: papers, with details in YOUR best interest, served cold.
If I'm out of line, forgive me. He just doesn't deserve you. Not this man with a death grip on past failures who rejects any and all solutions.
Good luck at the meeting with your boss, I'm sure he'll be delighted with your spirit and work ethic.
