Some good and familiar comments made here.

Shocked - just wondering who befriended whom on FB in the first place? I have a similar sitch in that my ex-W invited me to be her friend. I about fell out of my chair as we do not otherwise communicate other than the rare email concerning our daughter's wedding plans (a year from now). Anyway, she recently de-friended me, which caused me to laugh a little, but also invoked sadness as well. I think she may have de-friended me because the sister-in-law of her OM (whith whom she lives, but denies to me) was posting pics on her site, which I am sure she would rather I not see (she would be correct).

Like you and others, I continue to GAL, but there still remains the thought that she will one day see the light. I realize that she is in MLC, but I still occasionally find myself in total disbelief and missing what I once had.

Anyway, I wish you and everyone here the best!


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM