Yea, yea, yea...I never said I didn't think he was a very nice guy and I think he's very attractive. It's just not mutual. No big deal...he's just really funny and good to talk to. I'm glad that it made Gabe a little perturbed though. GOOD! I've been facing the broom for long enough, let him stew on even thinking there might be a possibility that someone finds me a little interesting! HA!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Yea, yea, yea...I never said I didn't think he was a very nice guy and I think he's very attractive. It's just not mutual. No big deal...he's just really funny and good to talk to. I'm glad that it made Gabe a little perturbed though. GOOD! I've been facing the broom for long enough, let him stew on even thinking there might be a possibility that someone finds me a little interesting! HA!
Geez, what is this jealous WAS month?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
How do you know that it isn't mutual, mish? And I'm sure that, even if it isn't a romantic interest, CG still thinks you are a great person for him to seek out and be friends with. You are worth it, worthwhile, interesting, funny, etc....
I can't wait to watch you bloom over the next year as you discover this yourself! Believe it!
I'm totally not even close to his type. No biggie, he's a great friend though and those don't come easily.
Going to a party at a friend's house tonight to 'celebrate' the finalization of her D and the end of her employment with a mutual friend that was driving her over the edge of her sanity! Should be good times.
Marc is becoming very adept at making social plans for himself. Not so good at asking permission first though. I'm glad that he is taking the initiative to get together with friends as he doesn't have many but he assumes that it's ok to just do whatever without asking me. Grrr.... I was telling him this morning that I was coming home at lunch and putting together a pan of enchiladas and would call him to put them in the oven so they would be ready when I got home and he told me he wasn't going to be home. Huh? I don't want to stifle him, but how should I address this so that he remembers to ask permission first before he makes plans? Suggestions?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Say exactly what you just said here, in a caring supportive voice:
"I am happy to see getting out more and being social with friends, could you please confer with me your schedule, so that I can make plans accordingly and know where you are in case of an emergency?".
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
That party is today and I'm still not sure I'm going to it. The more I think about it, I get sweaty palms and start to panic. No idea why! There will be plenty of friends there but I think the subject matter is just making me upset. I don't think I'm going to go. I'll stay home and do laundry instead. Laundry doesn't cause me to think about how alone and unloved I am.
YUCK!
Sorry, just feeling super down today about lots of different things.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Go and have fun. I am sure even if you get embarrassed it won't be so bad without guys there. You could maybe learn a couple things too... It is all part of opening yourself up. Shake things up!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
