>Couldn't it be that she was reaching out to a childhood friend while she was hurting and overdid it a little?

naw, its perfectly fine for a wife to spend pretty much the entire day for a month entertaining another man. maybe they were sharing recipes and talking about shoes.

>Going to the beach with no rings, I don't know why she didn't wear them that day, but she always wore them even when she met the other guy for the meetings.

naw, entertaining more than one guy. perfectly fine. not overdoing it in my book. maybe he's got better meatloaf recipe.

>Her faith would absolutely keep her from at the very least, a PA. One thing she has maintained in all of this is her strong faith. And if you knew her like I do, you would know that that is more important to her than me, the M, or even her life.

I dont think you know your wife at all right now. you did once. As I read your thread, it seems to me you are either misrepresenting your wife to sound like a tramp or you are not really seeing what you are looking at. sorry to bust your ba77s man. you are not a fool; I just don't think you understand. You just dont do it for your wife anymore! and she is entering the sexual prime of her life. She is lining up her ducks! Practicing on them and searching out the right one. One of them ducks is gonna say the right thing at the right time and faith is going to go out the window. That is a given.