Funny, I was dealing with the isolating feeling recently, too. Spoke to IC about it today, and...well, I should put it over on my thread
But know that you are not alone in these feelings...
yeah, that isolation thing is a real trigger for me. I'm trying to keep it in my head and deal with it that way, because otherwise I panic, get depressed, eat ice cream from the carton, etc. I'm learning to recognize the feeling before I react emotionally, so that I can do some constructive self-talk. A little do-it-myself cognitive behavioral therapy. Most of my poorer decisions in life have been in response to that sense of isolation--it only took me 53 years to figure out how to deal with it!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012