XH has decended from the cloud of MLC , HELP

[floridababe]

Thank you everyone for your answers.
Just wanted to let you know XH was very happy I called and said to call again, however I told XH, he can call me anytime he would like, and then left it at that. We talked like we where old friends, because basically thats exactly what we are anyway. The result of the call was to acknowledge his issue of surgery and my concerns about daug and their relationship again. XH was very happy that they have contacted each other and so am I. My daug's happiness is much more important to me. Trust me, there was no re-establishing R, in this call. Just two old friends talking about their children. It took along time for him to come out of this cloud and world he lived in. I am just very glad that he did. Do I want him back, no. Down the road maybe but thats along time away...I have a very nice life right now and would not drop it for any man. I also did let my bf know of the phone call and he was fine with it. He has children with his XW, so they also talk on the phone as well. I have no issue with it either. I take one day at a time in my life now with everything I do. I am not attached like I was with my XH.

Snodderly, I am doing well, thank you for asking.

But again, thank you all for your comments and concerns. This is exactly why I came back here....answer from people who are and have been thru what I have gone thru...THANKS!!!!