C - You did great. Keep it up. She will eventually stop blaming you for her hurt and pain. She is feeling the guilt and hates you for it. Keep on NOT ENGAGING her and she will have to deal with her part in ALL this sooner or later.
Great Job! Enjoy your trip with the boys. Practice STOP THINKING method. No negative thoughts about her. Just keep ALL your FOCUS on BEING IN THE MOMENT with the boys. They grow up quick
