I never thought of coincidences quite that way but I like it!!!
I have seen so much in my life that so many would say coincidence, but when you really look at it, they aren't. There is just no way. A perfect example is my niece. She should have been a still birth. But she is here, with no medical intervention after her arrival (total miracle as she was 3 lbs and almost 4 months early), and the only "coincidence" was a stress test that occured a day before it was scheduled because of a "glitch". If the test had occured the day it was scheduled, she would have been dead. Divine intervention?
Yes, I know I sort of contradicted myself by saying I wrote H a letter and staying out of God's way, but this was something involving S that I have been trying to bang into H's head for a while. I haven't said anything about it in a few weeks, just decided it was a waste of my time, and then I was simply "prompted" to sit down and spell it out for him. No sugar coating, just what it was. Then the next night, blam, S acted exactly like I was telling H. No not badly, just like he was not even aware H was here because of the deterioration of their R (mostly due to the excessive work). S has NEVER not seeked him father out before this. He has always tried to at least say goodnight. But nothing. I know H noticed because he eventually went looking for S to find him involved in something with me.
I'm sorry to be so vague about details, I'm sure it makes some of what I am trying to share confusing but I need to remain as anonomous as possible myself. I'm glad someone enjoys my ramblings. LOL. Sometimes I have to reread them myself simply because my fingers and head don't always go at the same speed.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
