Hey K, I believe in Karma...will our exes get hit by a bus? Probably not, even if that is what they deserve. However, I am certain (in spite of their low morality and lack of conscience) that there will be moments when they will have regrets (or maybe worse)....I truly believe that. My D8 expressed the desire to cut short her week with her mom because she wanted to be with her dad (she misses him). There is nothing that can hurt my ex more than that. Keep being yourself K...you will get over this slowly and you will be happy again ....maybe even happier. Oh yes, I like what Ali's mom said about revenge...be happy....we do not need them to be happy.... we can do alot better than the exes we had to endure for several years.... screw them!!!!!