There have been several times I have been close to suggesting to you to just "have the talk" with her and say let's get this sh*t together and fix it. But I think you are right, keep doing what you are doing and wait for her to bring it on. It will be that much stronger then.
Man, I can't tell you how many times I have felt that way.
I do not plan to stay in this state for an extended period of time. I think I will know when I have to bring it up if she doesn't. I just don't think right now is the time. Let's get some "dating" going first.
Wow, she left this morning to take my S to an appointment before school, and she had a sundress and heels on. Down boy! Definitely got my attention. But, I feel like I have this great Christmas present that I can't play with. Will be working out to the point of exhaustion later today.