If my wife is your wife, than I am you.

I fell asleep in my car at lunch Tuesday. (lots of coffee in place of Red Bull) It comes and goes though. Some weeks I have been stronger and more detached. Everyone pounds it to death on here, but they're right. It's the only way to get sanity for yourself and stop pressing the W.

I was reading on your thread about the plan. I think they do have a general "Goal" of happiness, but constantly change their "plan" of how to get there. The plan that we have is the DB stuff - doing something diferent, detaching, waiting for them to initiate R talks, getting a life etc. That needs to be our plan.

My W's plan seems to change daily.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.