I understand about the DBing, and I am trying to apply the principals. I don't understand the plan thing, though. What is she actually planning? And how does my being miserable fit into that plan? I'm not being beligerant, I am trying to understand this.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.