Yeah, I'm patting myself on the back for keeping my cool. It's been a while since we've "argued" as such. That said, and as noted here, our communication had really really been coming around. And then there is this. I leave it up to her to reach out and start things up again on the communication.
Agreed, cold turkey, been there done that when things were conistantly bad and that is my stance now again. Just really bites that that is how she wants it, but that is her choice to live with again. I am done arguing the past. She has always loved to dig dead buried issues and kick them around. I'm done with that. The D is done, she got what she wanted and I didn't. Thus, I am entitled to 're-start' my life and move on. She just seems to have a real issue with the fact that she failed to realize that when you're divorced from someone, you know longer have a say so or right to know every aspect of their life.
Unfortunately, e-mail is not an option as she doesn't have it (at least as far as I know) and even she did, would not work for me as I need to hear or see her emotion to give credit to what is being said.
-dday
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
