I've thought about the "end game" and posted a thread on here once as well. Basically, I think it is when the WAS says "ok let's make this work."
For you all dealing with WAS staying out late and such, I think you need to put a foot down and set some limits. If this is not "normal" pre-bomb behavior, then it is a good idea to think about saying enough. While you are in a relationship, sharing a home, and being parents that is not acceptable. If and when you separate and live apart, then they have to get a sitter or whatever to do that junk, but don't let yourself get run over now.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3