H has purchased this new place. It's just a few minutes drive away in the same suburb. It's his place and ow is not moving in. Actually, ow wasn't even present when he inspected it prior to purchase. The kids went with him on most property inspections.
I have given H and D slices of home made cake before for their trips to the football and he has seemed pleased. D said he 'fought' her for the bigger piece! I am inclined to think that this is something I could do based on past experience and the fact that there will be a crew with him. I'll be interested to see what the other feedback is. It's funny how little I do without considering it from every possible angle!