But I think in RSF's case, she's already making serious strides toward this other relationship. He told her already he wants his marriage with her to work. So now, he backs off, what message does that send?
RSF, what do you think your wife would want? I believe there are some women in your W's spot who would love for their H to fight for them. I also understand some women would want their H's to leave them alone. What does your gut tell you to do here?
