yeah, guys, can you believe that crap? he didn't go and I'd like to think when I told him "I'm not saying don't hang out, but if it's you and her alone, we're done. I have my boundaries and self respect." He said "You're always trying to control me!" I said "Look, if you want to throw away a future of making love to me (check post on SM's page...I have fun bags!) for a few hours alone with her, then I can't stop you and therefore, I don't have control. What I'm telling you is this is where I stand....I won't be hurt over this person anymore. Your choice, I have no control only you do."
He didn't go. Later when he called to say goodnight to S, he says to me "See, all that drama for nothing." I wanted to punch him.
I'd like to think it was me telling him what the outcome would be if he went out alone with her is what stopped him. Truth be told, he may have just wanted to push my buttons and they were never planning to hang out. Who knows? I know this: no matter what, he didn't go.
