I must really be detached b/c that thought had not occured to me. I suppose you're probably right.
Everything she does these days points to not leaving. She talks about things "we" will do that are months out. She is acting like my W, at least when it comes to talk and interaction.
Funny you said on your thread that you felt last night you may have to be the one to initiate acts with your H b/c maybe he's waiting for you to do that. I have had that thought too and even had it last night. I have been the one to head to bed before her, and last night she seemed almost sad I was foing to bed. Nothing specific she did, just a sense I picked up on with her tone of voice when I said I was turning in.
But, I am going to keep handling this the DB way. She will have to approach me when she's ready.
