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Job offer -- my last boss called and there is a postion in ECK - Early Childhood Kindergarten - he's offering it.

Pro's - out of this fresh he!!, back to a man boss (all it takes is one button undone, I get my way), and five of the children in that class were with me for two years - good for them, especially those on the autism spectrum).

Con's - pre-school is my passion, I lose control of the classroom ( just the sped (special education)teacher.

What to do ??

Tickets to Boob-a-palooza!!!! Priceless.

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And potato salad recipe -- will be posted.

I'm such a great cook and baker.

You'll love it!!


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Originally Posted By: davidswife

I wrote a really long post to you -- and then I sort of sifted and the cable pulled out and it was lost frown

I hate when that happens!
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I got another job offer tonight.

But it's great when that happens!
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Will post potato salad recipe -- I'm the best cook and baker!!

I don't know if I'm great, but for I guy, I think I hold my own. At least I get a fair number of compliments!
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And my IQ is 165 - bigger than my bust.

Hmmmm, an even playing field! I don't actually know what mine is, but I know it is up there. I think they just said over 150...
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Let me try to pull this together.

You're such a flirt - why are you still married?

Not that I knock that - but you seem so ready to move on - what's the deal??

I'm ready to move on. I have to get the paperwork done to split my retirement accounts, it's a pain in the neck, and costs a lot for very little! After that its just a matter of the actual D filing, which we can do ourselves, as long as we agree. I've already refinanced the house, and bought her out, she's bought her house. Our "stuff" is basically split, and we aren't fighting over the kids, so it should go pretty quickly.

I need to set a deadline on myself, and finish it off.

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I'll post about the new job offer.

I just want to be a good person. I feel like I'll be letting people down no matter what I do frown

Post, and we can kick it around. At one level it's true, but at another level, it isn't personal. That's important to remember.
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I had not forgotten. wink

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Originally Posted By: davidswife
Job offer -- my last boss called and there is a postion in ECK - Early Childhood Kindergarten - he's offering it.

Pro's - out of this fresh he!!, back to a man boss (all it takes is one button undone, I get my way), and five of the children in that class were with me for two years - good for them, especially those on the autism spectrum).

Con's - pre-school is my passion, I lose control of the classroom ( just the sped (special education)teacher.

What to do ??

Tickets to Boob-a-palooza!!!! Priceless.

32E


Hmmmmmm.....

Well, at first glance.....
it looks like the cons outweigh the pros.
I know you have boss problems, but I think you might well outlast the boss. And it seems you have already mastered the workaround.

As far as the kids you've had before, this year would be good for them, but then, they'd move on, right? So, it's a one year pro, but isn't a long term pro, from what I can see.

If preschool is your passion, and you have more control, it sounds like you are better where you are.

Of course, then there are the other issues.... pay, benefits, distance from home, blah, blah, blah.... I was guessing those are similar, but you can enlighten me!

((((((E)))))) wink

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If I take the ECK job - it'll help the students I had for two or three years.

And that principal is putty in my hands.

But I have contacted the parents in my new position, and I hate to back down when contact has been made.

The ECK would be great for my two former students on the Autism Spectrum.

Except, there are at least three on the Autism Spectrum in my new class.

Where will I do the most good?

That's what I care about.

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Maybe me new name should be 32E.

You're a guy -- how many people would connect the dots??


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Stace.... I think you are going to help a lot of kids in either position. It hurts, but you can't help them all!

I'm thinking that if you are more passionate about the preschool, you'll help more of them over the longer haul. What do you think?

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Originally Posted By: davidswife
Maybe me new name should be 32E.

You're a guy -- how many people would connect the dots??

Probably too many!

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That would be: too many.


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Having a slight breakdown here.

Whatever I do, I disappont frown


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