How can you walk away from someone, essentially abandon them, and think that your actions will or should be forgiven. There are few times in life that you recieve a blow like your spouse walking out. How can they seriously beleive that we will "still be friends"... like all they have to say is "I hope that we can still be friends" after they have slit your throat and youll just say, "oh, ok"

I think that honestly, shes trying to befriend you to help her feel less guilty about leaving. Like she let you go, instead of left you, same as the "you deserve better than me" line of B.S.

But, maybe you should take EVERYTHING I say with a grain of salt... been a little bitter lately. wink

Just make sure that you arent letting her eat cake. Be very aware of how you are willing to let a "friend" treat you, and stick to those boundaries.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...