golfgirl, your h is jerking you around and wanting you to stop the D simply because this break-up is not on his terms anymore. You have finally grabbed some of the power back.
He and his OW could keep lulling you with mixed messages until they could hide assets and other company business. And I bet this is just what they're doing.
You simply cannot afford to be caught flat-footed. See if you can have your L get a hearing to freeze the assets.
And just what kind of sh!t is this that he wants to get coaching while he is still "deep" in his A??!!
