Doc, I do understand what OT is saying. Since I have been seeing Mr. Accountant, excitement has crept back into my life. He makes me feel very desireable. He calls me, texts, and emails me to see how my day is going. He even likes to send racy text messages when he knows I'm somewhere I really shouldn't be getting messages like that. I think he likes to imagine my face when I open them up and read them. Sometimes I've certainly had to stifle giggles because I would not want to explain why I'm laughing. It is exciting to know that someone finds you sexy and desirable. Do that for your wife. Send her messages she's not expecting. Make some of them rated R maybe even X. Who knows you might awaken some deeply buried feelings in her.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
