Is there anyway you can cut something out of your life and make time for you to exercise? this weight that you have, and I know you know this, will only make everything harder. I know I need to lose 10 lbs myself as well. We will feel better, more energy, better confidence, and better mood.
I think this is really important for you to do. it's not that you need to starve, you should still eat, and eat several meals a day, but just change what your eating. cut the pop, the sweets, the extra carbs, and go for more fruits and veggies. and drink a ton of water.
and don't get sucked into xH's tornado! lol
btw, I thought your text back to him was funny.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."