JR,

Well, I think your answer lies in your own words from your last post. You said that you have been so focused on prepping for divorce that you have not given much thought to the proceedings being dismissed.

Maybe it would help you to focus some on that possibility...once it arrives (after Friday - until then, keep focused on staying busy). I do not think you have to "do" anything just yet. You will have time.

I always make better choices (well, almost always) and take better, more precise action after I have spent time focused on what I want, what is best for me and how to accomplish that.

I suspect the last thing you want is to spend anymore time thinking...you want to feel as though you are taking action. But, thinking about what you want and need is taking action.

If the divorce proceedings are dismissed, just let that lie for a while...process your feelings and observe your wife's actions. Just as you have figured out your way through your current stage, you will navigate the next one, whatever it is. Trust that you will be okay, because you will.

V.


VV:41