I know I haven't 'made it' yet. It's hard, very hard to to let go completely, you're right. But, although I haven't let go, I take a protective measure for myself and boys in her dealings.
It isn't easy by far, she is the mother of my children, and my life of 12 years, but it is passing, day by day.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11