I agree discussing the well being of the kids is nothing that should cause pressure on her. I see why you think that though, but really it was her fault for jumping the gun with not only the introduction, but the actual sleeping there.....that amazes me.
I honestly cant believe the sleeping over thing either. I really hurt her badly when I left and this guy is making her feel good and making her feel like everything is alright.
With respect to the kids I think she is fuming because she feels I'm calling her on right and wrong after what I did. She is really struggling to process that.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09