Yes this is a victory and it's a huge sign, to me, that YES she does still care about you.
I sincerely question that her willingness to be more mindful of the impact her R is having on her children has anything to do with him. I think that is mixing apples and oranges. If it pans out, great, but she is exhibiting that she still cares about her kids and MAYBE him.
Better get brass b*lls with the Knight suit cuz this could go either way and the more detached you are the better.
I get everything you're saying here except: "the more detached you are the better." What does that mean? Detach myself so I minimize my hurt when she doesn't come back to me?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09